Urethral stimulation is a very exciting and stimulating activity. It is therefore not surprising that so many people like to engage in penis sounding and other types of urethral play. There are also numerous urethral toys you can try, such as penis plug and penis sounds.  However, this doesn’t mean that you have to have a penis in order to try urethral stimulation. There are many women who like this type of play and who enjoy urethral stimulation to the fullest. Female urethral stimulation is perhaps not as known, but it sure exists. One doesn’t need a penis to engage in urethral stimulation!

This is great news for all those who wish to try urethral play. However, keep in mind that urethral stimulation is a bit different in this case and not all advice suitable for penis urethral stimulation will be true here. For this reason make sure to always seek specific advice and ask questions about this specific form of urethral stimulation.

Female Urethral Stimulation: The Main Characteristics 

In many ways, urethral stimulation works the same regardless of your sex and your anatomy. You don’t need to have a penis to enjoy urethral stimulation – any urethra, even the short one, is sensitive enough for this type of massage. In other words, inserting toys into urethra can be very sensual and arousing, and women sure can enjoy this feeling to the fullest.

Another great way is that this type of stimulation can help you reach some of your sweetest spots, but from a different position than usual. Urethral stimulation can massage your clitoris from below and your G-spot from above. The best of all? These two types of sensation can be achieved at the same time. This is very arousing and it definitely means that you do not have to have a penis to enjoy urethral stimulation to the fullest.

The main difference is the access to urethra and the size of the urethra. It is a bit more difficult to find the urethral opening than it is for people with a penis. As for the size, keep in mind that women have a much shorter urethra. Also, their urethra is smaller in width, which will affect the choice of urethral toys.

However, it is possible to stretch your urethra so you will be able to take even the regularly sized urethral toys (here we mean on the diameter). When it comes to length, however, you will need to be careful because of the shorter length of the urethra. In other words, once you are experienced and once your urethra is stretched chances are that you will be able to use regular sounds, but you will not be able to insert them all the way down. This is ok – since the urethra is shorter in this case, even a few inches means deep urethral stimulation.

Urethral Toys for Women

When choosing the best toy for urethral stimulation, it’s important to keep several things in mind. First of all, women have a much shorter urethra, which means that a toy cannot be inserted deeply. This is not a problem on itself, because it still allows for enjoyable urethral stimulation. However, it is important to remember not to force a toy too deeply. The toy itself can be long or short, but you can never insert it too deeply into your urethra.

A bigger issue is the thickness (width) of the toy. Women have a smaller urethra than men, which means that the natural canal is not as wide as it is inside a penis. This directly dictates the diameter of the toy you can insert. Generally speaking, women have to use thinner toys than men because these are the only ones that can fit their urethra without overstretching and causing pain and discomfort.

Luckily, it is possible to find these thin toys. For a start, you may wish to try thin urethral sounds or small penis plugs. Sounds often work better because there are those that are thin enough to fit a woman’s urethra.

However, keep in mind that a toy should never be too thin – it should fit inside your urethra but with a snug fit. You can make the experience smoother with the lube, but the diameter of the toy should not be much smaller than the urethra itself.

This should not be much of a problem at the beginning, but as you begin to practice urethral stimulation and train your urethra, you will notice some stretching. Your urethra will stretch and it will be able to accommodate thicker toys. A woman with a stretched urethra can use regular urethral toys (penis plugs and urethral sounds) that men use. Most women will not be able to accommodate very thick toys but with a lot of patience and training you will be able to take regular urethral toys.

One word of warning: as your urethra stretches, it will become wider, which means that you will need to use thicker toys. This means that the toys you can originally insert will be too thin and thus dangerous for you to use. Never insert toys that are too thin for your urethra! Very thin urethral toys are actually reserved for the most experienced users. If your urethra stretches make sure to try a bit thicker toys.

As always, it is important to be patient and to go slowly and gently. This is the only way to insert toys properly and to enjoy urethral stimulation to the fullest. In order to have fun with urethral play make sure to choose appropriate toys, use plenty of lube and don’t forget to go slowly.

Inserting the Toy

It is always helpful to be sexually aroused before you start. When you are aroused your urethra enlarges so it’s easier to insert the toy. This is why it’s useful to rub your clitoris or achieve arousal in a different way before you start with urethral insertion. Make sure you are properly aroused so your urethra enlarges. Some women even choose to masturbate to orgasm, but this is not necessary and it might in fact make you less eager to try urethral stimulation.

Try different things to see what works the best for you. In any case, being aroused definitely helps so make sure to try that one! Once you are properly aroused, make sure to add lube to the tip of the toy and your urethral opening, and you are ready to start.

It is important to go slowly and gently, especially if you are a newbie. Keep the lube close and make sure you are relaxed. Many women find that it’s easiest to insert a urethral toy if they hold the toy with one hand and gently spread their labia with the other. This will give you a free access to your urethra.

When you are ready, gently press the tip of the lubed toy onto your urethral opening. Make sure that both the toy and your urethral opening are lubed properly. Depending on the length of the toy, you may need to stabilize it with your fingers as you gently guide it into urethra.

For the first timers, keep in mind that it might be difficult to insert the toy on the first try. This is why it’s important to be patient and relaxed. Make sure that the toy is well-lubricated. You might be able to insert only the tip, but this is ok. You may try again at a later time.

When trying to insert the toy, make sure to apply only mild pressure. You should not push or force the toy or else you may damage the tissue and cause a lot of problems. If the toy and your urethral opening are well-lubed, and if the toy is thin enough, chances are that you will be able to insert at least the tip. Try to remain relaxed during insertion and keep trying unless you feel discomfort and burning. If it happens, stop and try again at a later time.

Once the tip of the toy is safely inside, you may continue to apply gentle pressure to go deeper. However, keep in mind that female urethra is only a few inches long, so you will not be able to insert the toy as deep as it’s possible to insert it into a penis. This is ok. These few inches are an appropriate depth that can make you aroused. However, since the urethra is much shorter than the one inside the penis, you need to be very careful not to insert the toy too deeply.

In order to prevent problems, make sure to stop as soon as you encounter the resistance. You should not attempt to push the toy further (it would go into the bladder, which can cause numerous problems). Once you encounter the resistance make sure to grab the toy and be careful not to go any further.

Urethral Play

Once the toy is inside, you may start experimenting to see what feels the best and what makes you aroused. Whatever you do, however, keep in mind to go slowly and gently or else you are risking injuries, infections and other problems.

For many women, just the feeling of a toy gently stretching the urethra is enough to become aroused. If you like this feeling, you may try gentle masturbation with the toy inside. You may rub your clitoris or gently insert fingers or toys into vagina or anus. However, make sure to go gently. Keep in mind that you need to stabilize the urethral toy with your other hand. For these reasons, it may be great to try urethral stimulation with a partner.

Some women prefer “in and out” sounding, which involves moving the toy up and down the urethra. If you find this activity stimulating, make sure to go very gently and to only move the toy for less than an inch in both directions. Do not attempt to remove the toy fully and then put it back quickly – this can be dangerous. Instead, make sure to keep at least the tip of the toy inside as you move it in and out.

Another thing you may wish to try is to stimulate your G spot through the urethra. Try to gently rock the toy against your vaginal wall (located under the urethra). You need to be very careful while doing this, and this form of play requires some practice. However, with enough patience and relaxation, chances are that you will be able to find new sweet spots to stimulate.

Keep in mind that urethral stimulation always requires patience and gentle moves, so do not rush things out. You will gradually learn what feels the best and how to enjoy urethral play to the fullest.

Safety

It is vital to follow all safety guidelines to minimize risks that urethral stimulation brings. Keep in mind that while it’s possible to perform urethral play safely, there are significant risks you need to understand. You need to know that urethral stimulation is a somewhat extreme activity that can bring problems unless you know how to prevent them.

The best way to stay safe during urethral stimulation is to be informed about all the potential risks and to follow guidelines on how to prevent them. It is highly advisable to seek advice from a kink-friendly doctor who can help you understand the risks and how to stay safe. An advice from a medical professional is the only valid one so make sure to find a doctor who is kink friendly and who can help you stay safe during urethral stimulation.

The main risks associated with urethral stimulation are urinary tract infections and injuries. Women have a shorter urethra than men, which makes the risk of urinary tract infections greater. As such, female urethral stimulation brings more risk of infection so this is something you need to be aware of.

In order to prevent infections or to at least minimize the risk, your urethral toys need to be absolutely clean and sterilized. You need to sterilize them before each use, and to make sure that there is no contamination. For example, you should never pick a toy with dirty hands because it won’t be sterile anymore. Whenever possible, use rubber gloves for your urethral play to ensure that everything is sterile and safe.

Also, don’t forget to clean your toys after each use and to keep them in a safe place. Keeping your toys clean and sterile is a must. This is the only way to minimize the risk of urinary tract infections.

The same goes for the lube. It is always the best to use sterile lube for urethral stimulation. Surgilube is a good choice of lube for those who wish to engage in urethral stimulation.

When it comes to preventing injuries, there are two things to keep in mind: appropriate toys and gentle use. It is absolutely necessary to use only toys specially designed for urethral use. Never attempt to insert a random object into urethra! Urethral toys, such as sounds, are specially made for the purpose of being inserted into urethra. They are comfortable and made of body-friendly materials so they are safe for urethral use. Many of these toys are also very smooth so it makes the insertion easier. If you wish to engage in urethral stimulation it is absolutely vital to use only toys designed for this purpose.

Also, make sure that all the toys used for urethral stimulation are of appropriate size. Keep in mind that women have a shorter urethra, which makes it limiting when it comes to toy use, although many urethral toys can be used, as long as they are only partially inserted and never inserted deeply. When it comes to the width of the uret